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Posted on January 26, 2025January 26, 2025

Food: Social Food (and anti-social US developments)

Collage of images: top row: cocktail in a highball glass, latte with dove-like foam, pink foamy cocktail; middle row: ramen with veggies, vegan nachos; bottom row: herb dusted fries, harissa ketchup, roasted brussel sprouts, baba ganoush, pita, and a candle in a wicker cage.
Collage of images: top row: cocktail in a highball glass, latte with dove-like foam, pink foamy cocktail; middle row: ramen with veggies, vegan nachos; bottom row: herb dusted fries, harissa ketchup, roasted brussel sprouts, baba ganoush, pita, and a candle in a wicker cage.

Even as an introvert, I love to (a) socialize with friends while (b) eating delicious foods. So this was a dining out weekend! I had a spontaneous cocktail and dinner outing with a friend Friday, and a long-planned ramen and caffeine social outing Saturday.

Friday, I took my team out for Thai food (lychee iced tea goes with everything!) and espresso drinks. In the evening, I enjoyed great conversation over a fine cocktail, za’atar fries, roasted brussel sprouts, flavorful baba ganoush. After running late Saturday afternoon, I enjoyed catching up with two long-standing friends, hearing about recent travels, AND enjoyed spicy ramen with ‘artisanal’ gluten-free noodles, a brief walk, a delicious almond milk latte, and picked up vegan nachos on the way home before the weather turned colder. At home, my meals have included vegan potato and poblano scrambles (with JustEgg and chipotle habañero salsa), pour-over dark roast coffee (Peet’s Sulawesi-Kalosi), gluten-free high protein waffles with raspberry fruit spread, yuzu and plain green teas, a homemade Thai green curry, more of those vegan nachos… and I’m not convinced that I’m done eating yet!

The only challenge: it is “cold” to us locals, and something about cold weather inspires me to want to overeat and then hibernate for at least a month.

This past week of January 2025 here in the U.S. feels like an especially good time to stress-eat and then withdraw from the world. Events in the U.S. associated with the new administration are… what was the Lemony Snicket story called, something like A Series of Unfortunate Events? That. The news is THAT. Reading about current events this past week has been painful.

My country has withdrawn from most meaningful international projects. Taxpayer funding for health and science programs has abruptly ceased. Government officials have been illegally fired; government employees with job offers in hand are receiving notice that their offers are being rescinded. Historical fascist gestures that were immediately condemned in Europe were normalized by the domestic media. (‘Shoutout to Germany for using their expertise to call it as they saw it). There is a propaganda effort to suppress information about the achievements of women and people of all ancestries other than European. The new administration has made a combination of invasion threats and trade war moves against both of our nearest neighbors, plus (somehow) Denmark, Columbia, and Panama…

The words I would choose to characterize these developments are neither fit for printing nor the public internet, though they are passionate and fair. I’m unlikely to write about world / current events here. (This blog is slow-paced and not time-sensitive. I save my tirades for people who can exchange these sentiments in person.) But know that I’m aware of them, even if I am choosing not to address those topics here.

Posted on September 26, 2024September 26, 2024

Life: Lovely, Tiring Week

Tuesday at Sunrise
Weblog by A. Elizabeth Graves. iPhone photography and links to science-y and foodie topics.

Oh, it’s been so lovely this week.

This week featured the soupiest, most dramatic fog.

The warmest, glowiest sunrise. (Yes, I may be making up words.)

Delightful conversations with people who are fun and talented at conversation, so that interacting with them felt so natural. The kinds of conversations that leave you smiling and feeling a little sunnier. (Sunnier a real word.)

My only regret is that I’ve been wreck on days when I’ve run live training for large groups. Interacting with so many people (and then continuing on to have a full day of meetings) just… EMPTIES me. And then I am mentally just pudding in human form, and can’t respond properly to others. I feel rude toward people who reasonably expect me to engage, but who don’t know that I’ve already given out all the communication I had in me.

I feel like I should wear a vest similar to the ones that service and police dogs wear that says “DO NOT PET.” I said similar – I’m not that size. (Also, I wouldn’t use that label, because there are people I know who might hassle me whenever I’m not wearing it.) The phrases I would use to both apologize and ask people to be gentle with me are all too long to put on a reasonably-sized patch, however.

If you know me: I appreciate your patience as I reboot.

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